This post is targeted to folks local to Nelson. We have quite a few friends and family visiting us from April 15 - June 1. Our current place is quite large BUT has only one bathroom which limits the number of folks that we can host comforably. So if you know of a place in and around Tahuna hills, send me mail to lobo at yahoo dot com
Its been a crazy past weekend with regard to the weather in NZ. Luckily, Nelson was one of the few places that missed most of the excitement. The past weekend NZ experienced:
After 3 months of mellow yellow (sunshine) Nelson, off to NZ's capital we go. Also known as Windy Wellington. We lucked out big - weather was awesome - 24C. The main reason to go - canele, dimsum, indian/malaysian food : ) , Te Papa museum, cable car, different playgrounds, zoo, see more people (163,824; 2001 census)
fun fact: Wellington is the most "fully wired" city in the most "fully wired" country in the world.
The food was excellent. Roti had great roti's. The mango lassi was a hit with maya and pj. Lobo and I ordered the rose lassi and it was delicious. Petit Bordeux, the french bakery I found on the web was closed. Somehow Lobo managed to find another bakery, Bourdeux, that happened to be owned by petit bordeux as well. Thank goodness for the internet. It had good croissants, canele, and pastries. It was so yum, that we bought some to take home. After our fill of butter, we all walked down the street parallel to the train tracks. The girls ran up and down laughing and giggling.
The location of our one bedroom apartment on The Terrace allowed all of us to walk 15 minutes (maya and pj pace) down to to the waterfront, playground, cable car, roti chennai and roti restaurant. The waterfront was a great place to walk, and wander. Lots of people jogging, walking, and biking. Walking around Wellington, was like walking around San Francisco, many stairs and hills to climb. To keep PJ and Maya walking up, I made it fun to walk slow on their toes, run fast, then slow again.
I've been frequenting the $2 shops these days to keep Maya and PJ busy with interesting activities. There are a lot of craft things - glitter glue, paper, paint, little shiny things to glue, etc. During my wandering around Cuba Street I spotted a $2 shop and went in. Knowing that Maya will be awake when I return, I decide to buy some paper oval boxes and stickers. She keeps herself busy for 30 minutes. : ) She spent a lot of time cutting tiny bits of scrap paper to fill her box to the rim.
We could've easily spent a 4th night in Wellington eating and exploring. It's a great city to wander, and yum coffee to start everyday.
We had fabulous weather in Wellington two days ago (25 degree C). Over the weekend a pretty strong weather front moved in and its drenching pretty much all of NZ currently. Its gotten quite cold and was 7 degrees C this morning. The kids had to be bundled up with jackets and beanies etc. Summer was quite short out here looks like :(. The radio station reported that there was a sprinkling of the white stuff (snow) on peaks of some mountains near takaka. Our fabuolous view is quite blurry right now, and no peaks are visible. Hey, might be a great winter ski season here!
Hopfully we'll have some good weather when all our friends start visiting later this month and into next month. Start praying to the weather gods folks ...
We had heard about a farmers / veggie market near Te Papa museum. We figured we might as well try to get some yummy food there. My previous night research on the web did not reveal much, so I was not very sure if we would find anything there. Wellington does not have a real farmers market. The one next to Te Papa is more like a commercial veggie market with a few producers with big veggie trucks. We did not find any interesting food, though we did purchase some good artisan bread. It was a windy wellington morning and we wandered over to the Dragon Boat races. Maya does not like speaker sounds, so she was a bit spooked at the announcements of the dragon race and insisted we go home. We compromised and went inside to Te Papa cafe where we had a mediocre flat white and some large fluffies. There was a fair amount of toys to keep the kids entertained while we waited for the museum to open at 10:00 am.
We are not big fans of museums (unless they are kid museums!), but Te Papa was definitely an amazing place and a must-visit attractions. Its well designed, spacious and has quite a few things for kids to do. We spent a fair amount of time at the Discovery Center and then at Nature Space exploring and checking out the birds and animals of NZ. The kids played with a few puzzles at Discovery Center (which we later purchased at the kids store). We then went on the short bush walk and ended up at the sandpit where the kids set up camp for an hour or so. By 11:30 am, the kids were quite tired and we headed to Wellington Market where we had head of a Maori stall. The stall unfortunately had closed down some time ago and the other stalls did not look too good. Roti Chennai has a presence there, but we were still stuffed with malaysian / indian food from our past meals. We had some decent mexican eggs and beans at Vive Mexico, the salsa was quite well spiced. I took the kids home for their afternoon siesta while Mari went exploring Courtney Place and Cuba St.
The evening program was more playtime and biking along the waterfront at Waitanga Park. We had dinner reservations at Bistro Breton in Kelburn and we headed there at 6:30 pm. We started off with an amuse bouche of good salmon pate on not very interesting bread. Mari had an excellent french onion soup as a starter and I ordered the smoked fish plate. Maya managed to scarf most of the smoked salmon and tuna while I got some more of the salmon pate and bread. The kids split the kids menu meal of an excellent pieced of grilled blue cod and some average thick cut french fries. They squeezed ketchup from a cute tomato shaped container. For the main course, Mari had the the Cotriade Breton. This is basically the bretonnese version of Bouilliabaise with musssels, shrimps, salmon and a white fish in a fish stock. The fish was a bit dry, the broth was quite flavorful and tasty. I picked the Potee Bretonne, which is also a traditional Breton Stew with pork sausages and bacon with green cabbage, turnips, carrots and potatoes. We thought the main courses were quite average. For dessert we ordered the Ile Flottante, which is creme anglaise and soft meringye, caramel sauce and grilled almonds. The kids split vanilla and cholcolate kapiti icecream (which was part of their kids meals). We also shared a bottle of French wine (basically I drank most of it, with mari the designated driver having an occasional sip). Overall I'd give the place a 6/10. It was good, but for that price range, your expectations are also much higher. Our meal cost us NZD $150.
Yet another excellent day spent in Wellington. We have a baby cot in the apartment (the playpen), and the kids take turns sleeping in it. We've nicknamed it The Cage. We had it when Maya was a kid and she refused to stay in it, but now they love sleeping on their own in it. The joys of seeing children grow and change :)
Mari got up bright and early Saturday morning and went off to explore Wellington. Her main goal was to goto a French Bakery and get some croissants home for breakfast along with some good coffee. Unfortunately the bakery she had selected (Le Petit Bordeaux) seemed to be closed and looking for a new chef. Her coffee shop of choice (Masi) was also closed down since that block was under renovation.
She came back empty handed, and we got the kids ready and headed for the zoo via Cafe L'Affare. The cafe was crowded and buzzing at 9:15 am in the morning (which is quite unusual in NZ). We had an excellent flat white, a good blueberry muffin and the kids had their fluffy with quite a few marshmallows. We then went to the Wellington Zoo in Newtown. The Zoo was not bad, and definitely a fun activity to do with kids. There was a fair amount of walking involved and we got to see a few interesting animals and birds. The view of the giraffes at eye level was definitely the best part. We spent some time at the Newtown playground after that before heading for lunch.
Lunch was excellent dim sum at Regal (5 Courtney Place). The place was quite packed just like Kon Tiang or Koi Palace in San Francisco. A 15 minute wait turned out to be more like 30 minutes before we were finally seated. We were quite hungry and ordered a fair amount of dim sum to satisfy our craving. The roast duck and spare ribs were quite good. The kids enjoyed the shrimp sui mai, eggplant and fish, egg tart. There was not as much of a seafood variety as I would have liked (or probably those plates never made it to our table!). Overall an excellent lunch, i'd give it a 7/10.
Headed back to the Terrace and put PJ down for her nap. We resumed our adventures at 4:00 pm or so and walked to Lambton Quay and the cable car terminus at the bottom of the hill. Took the cable car all the way to Wellington Botanic Gardens. The children's playground was a good 10 minutes walk away in the middle of the gardens and met our high playground standards. (most playgrounds in NZ are well built and quite new!) While one of us was hanging out at the playground with the kids the other one took a 30 min walk through the gardens. We then took the cable car back to town and stopped at a small playground on the way down. This one in contrast was quite old and run down. I suspect there are not too many small kids in that area since the playground was next to Victoria University hostels.
Dinner that night was at Roti Chennai (the original Roti place in wellington according to their menu). We ordered a vegetarian dosa, roti with mild chicken curry for the kids, fish veruval and seafood/chicken laksa. The food was really good. The sambhar had lots of flavor and the coconut and tomato chutney played a good supporting role. The roti was nice and flaky, the chicken curry was quite mild which the kids liked. We had too much food, so did not really eat the fish dish (though the bites we had were good). The only sour note was the laksa, which was really bad. The noodles seemed undercooked and did not taste great. We topped off the meal with a good glass of rose flavored lassi. Overall our best meal of the trip so far and gets the highest rating of 8/10.
We had a nice climb back up to the apartment hotel which walked off our dinner as well as made the kids tired :) Another exciting day in the big city ...
We've been quite busy having a lot of fun in Wellington. Its nice to be back in a relatively big city, but to a large extent, I'm glad we are spending the year in a smaller place like Nelson.
We woke up fairly early at 4:00 am on Friday. Got the car packed, kids ready and were on the road by 5:30 am. NZ driving is significantly more difficult than US driving. The roads are curvier, fair amount of construction and its pretty much a 2 lane hwy into Picton. It took us a bit longer than expected and we had to skip coffee at the Picton Village Bakery (or Le Cafe) and headed straight to the BlueBridge ferry boat, Santa Regina. The Inter-Islander boats are a bit more comfortable and spread out, and have a few more activities for kids. Next time, we'll take the Inter-Islander between the two islands. We got into Wellington at 11:15, drove around the city in search of our apartment hotel (The Terraces). Its a good find. Its quite central to the city but a good step climb away and very spacious. The major drawback is its close to the Wellington freeway, but the noise level is quite tolerable
The ethnic food in Wellington has met or surpassed our expectations already. We started the trip with a good meal at Roti on Willis St. We had the Egg Roti with lamb, the veggie murtabak, mee goreng noodles, mango lassi and rose lassi. We polished most of it off quite nicely. It was significantly better than the local malaysian restaurant in nelson (spices). They also had thosai (which is the malaysian spelling for the south indian dosa!). Didn't know that before we ordered, so we unfortunately skipped it. (i used to be a dosa addict, still am!). Have not had good ethnic food is some time, so my ratings are a bit off. I'd probably give Roti a good solid 7/10.
We walked around downtown a bit. Wellington is a fairly compact city and all the popular areas are a few blocks from each other. We saw quite a few places that were on our list while we wandered around. PJ needed her afternoon nap, so we headed home to put her down. On the way home, I picked an excellent cup of coffee at Mojo (on Willis and Dixon).
In the evening we headed to the Frank Kipps playground along the waterfront. The kids were quite happy there and we go a good view of the harbor and the afternoon ferry coming in. The place was quite happening since it was a Friday evening. On our way home, we checked the cable car location for a potential trip the next day. Mari took the kids home, while I walked to Courtney Place to get some takeaway dinner. It was either Chinese food from The Beijing or Latin American food from sweet mother. I found Sweet Mother first and went there. We got the Fish PoBoy, Chicken Quesadillas (for PJ), Jambalaya and Kumara Mash. I had a pretty strong margarita while I was waiting and also read a pretty good review of the restaurant in the local Wellington magazine. (the praise was a bit too generous and flowing for all the restaurants there, which made it seem like an advertisement rather than a review). I was tired (and a bit drunk), and did not relish the prospect of a long walk back home. Figuring the kids might be a bit hungry, I jumped in a cab :). The food was quite good. In general takeaway food does not have the same taste/feeling as eating at the restaurant. The Poboy and the kumara mash were excellent. The jambalaya and the quesadilla were above average. I'd give it a 6/10
We were quite tired and slept early the first nite in the Big City :)
Someone please recommend a good web design company to the newspaper folks here. Its amazing as to how little content they have on their website. I've been trying to research the food and kid scene in Wellington, and the newspapers dont help. A few weeks ago, we thought about subscribing to the Christchurch Press, and it took me a fairly long time to find how to subscribe. Obviously, u cannot do it online. You send them email, they tell you to go buy the paper, cut and fill the subscription form and send it in. Can someone please pull them into the internet age
If you think I'm exaggerating, see for yourself the fine web sites of The Nelson Mail, The Christchurch Press and the Dominion Post. They don't have the restaurant reviews online, or stuff about the city / place. Please take a look at the SF Chronicle or the NY Times to see how a real newspaper's website should look like. Maybe the parent website Stuff should stop the practice of producing cookie cutter newspaper sites
Ok, enough venting for now ..
We head out early tomorrow morning at 5:30 am or so to catch the 8:00 am Bluebridge ferry from Picton to Wellington. Its amazing the things you need to pack with kids :) We are taking their bike/tryke, books, helmets, swimming gear etc. Mari has come up with the Pillow Case (tm) packing scheme. Each of us gets a pillow cover and we stuff our clothes in it. The same for books and other items.
We spend a lot of time figuring out the place we'll eat and have coffee etc. All of us are quite excited to be going to the big city. So here' s a list of things we plan to do in Wellingon. If you are local to Wellington, feedback is appreciated.
We are starting to fall into a regular rhythm now :) Tuesday nite is Sushi night. We call up Masao-San from Sushi House tuesday morning and place our regular order (combination of nigiri sushi, sashimi and rolls) for pickup tuesday evening. Mari picks up the kids from school, feeds their ever growing appetites and drops them off at Nelson library. I bike to the library and hang out with them doing art and puzzles for the next hour or so. Mari wanders around happening Nelson, picks up the sushi and wanders back to the library. The nelson area also gets tuna from Fiji on tuesdays and hence there is a bit more variety in the sushi.
We then head home with a platter of yummy food ready to be devoured by the starving Tilos/Lobo clan. There has been an interesting change in dynamics the past few weeks. PJ who would not touch sushi once upon a time now competes with Maya to pick up the choicest morsels (leaving the rice for moi!). Last week we had to increase our order to accomodate PJ's growing appetite. Unfortunately, today Maya and PJ took it to the next level and pretty much gobbled up 80% of the sashimi and quite a bit of the other nigiri (the rolls have too much rice for their liking!). Looks like the order will need to be revised again for next week :)
Its kinda nice to see how PJ's food habits have evolved from a year ago. A year ago she would only eat rice, oatmeal and meat and refuse to touch any fruit or fish. Today, she loves to eat fruit and fish and is becoming quite adventurous in her eating habits (she still has some ways to go to becoming a true foodie!)
We are headed to Wellington this weekend :) Taking the Bluebridge ferry and staying at Terrace Villas. We are leaving friday morning and will be back monday nite. If you are from the wellington area or know about good food / cafe / kid things to do, please leave a comment on the blog :)
we'll obviously document all the things to do with kids when we are there, but would be good to get some insider tips :)
Nelson is a pretty mellow place to live in and the weather is good. Riding my bike into Downtown Nelson today, I realized that there's a lot of pollution. Biking parallel with the beautiful aqua Tasman Sea, I take in a lot of exhaust. Nelson being a small town, I'm actually biking on Highway 6, which is used by the big cargo trucks all day long.
In the other direction, towards home, the sea breeze is against you, and there are bike trails away from the highway traffic. A very good bike ride from Nelson to Richmond (Railway reserve) is an excellent bike trail. On a major portion of it, it is accessible only to bikers and pedestrians. Nelson is a very biker friendly place. Even the children bike to school - girls and boys.
Everyday I hear this noise. It's 24/7 or until the windows are closed. Since we arrived, I haven't even seen one, but heard them all the time buzzing in the trees. I would wonder, "How many are in there?" Today, while biking home, one smashed into my chest. It was about 3 inches long and big. The previous night, I saw one in the house. ( the bathroom window will now be closed in the night). Some cidada fun facts below.
http://www.ivyhall.district96.k12.il.us/4th/kkhp/1insects/cicada.html
http://hydrodictyon.eeb.uconn.edu/projects/cicada/NZ/gallery.htm
Mari and I have started a "lunch date" tradition. One day in a week (typically thursday), we'll go out and have lunch somewhere in town. So far we've been to Waterfront, which is the sister restaurant to The Smokehouse Cafe (which we've also visited and have pretty good memories of, nothing outstanding but quite solid) in Mapua. It is pretty much across from the Boatshed (a restaurant no longer frequented by us!) on Wakefield Quay. The views from the dining room overlook Tasman Bay and the Nelson Sailing Club.
They have a pretty good lunch menu and on our two visits we've tried four different dishes. All of them were quite solid and well worth it for the price. On our first visit I tried the chili calamari with potatoes and a summer salad and Mari had the moroccan spiced turbot with a summer salad. The turbot was pan fried and quite delicious, the calamari was tender but not as spicy as I expected it to be. On our next visit Mari tried the nelson bay scallops with fries and a salad and I got a steak and mushrooms with fries. The fries were thick cut and not very good. The scallops were quite excellent with a nice white sauce. The steak and mushrooms were ok, I'm not a major meat eater so can't really evaluate steak very well. I suspect we'll try a few other places the next few weeks before going back there. Its close, quick, good and reasonably priced. What more can I ask?
A bit of deviation from my normal Life in NZ blog. Recently became aware of a pretty decent wiki/blog site called Givewell. This came up primarily from an article on the NTEN blog. Weirdly enough, this article is no longer present on the blog. I felt strongly enough to make a small comment on that article.
I have some experience on all sides of the non-profit equation, i.e. employee, funder and fundee. I was an employee of a non-profit (Groundspring.org at that time run by Tides, now part of Network for Good). My two years out there were an eye opening experience and I came away with a sad feeling about how inefficient the whole foundation funding process is and to some extent how big a role "connections" play in funding non-profits. I also concluded that some non-profit organizations are not very efficient, not willing to change and improve their business process and reduce expenses.
We started CiviCRM to provide a good base of open source tools for the non-profit sector. I've been doing this for a little more than two years now, and it has been a pretty good experience. We seem to be filling good niche and are getting used by quite a few orgs in the US and worldwide. You can read more about CiviCRM in our year end report, our website and our blog. We have been reluctant to go down the foundation funding road primarily due to the long road involved but have been lucky enough to have been funded by a good foundation.
We also do some funding in our personal life for a few organizations. Over a period of time, we've started focusing on funding organizations working directly in India. We have experienced quite a few of the things that the Givewell folks mention in their wiki and their blog. Its good to see an organization focus on the non-profit world and publicly analyze and compare them in a transparent manner. There is definitely a need for this, and I hope more foundations do the same and collaborate and publish their findings to improve the sector
I recently took the kids to Edna Turner library in Nelson. Its the library for Nelson region and its quite big and very nice. They have a pretty big kids area, a coloring desk and chairs, bean bags and lots of other activities and puzzles to keep kids of all ages entertained and occupied. I had not been to the kids part of the library before (mari and cecile had done the honors previously) and it was quite a pleasant surprise. They have a pretty good collection of books and we checked out a few to keep the kids occupied. Their current favorite books from the library are: Good night, Pillow Fight and You are not my real mother. They also like the Madeline and Olivia series of books quite a bit. The house we are currently renting has a few small model cars. Both the kids are fascinated with the cars and spend quite some time playing with them.
Maya likes us to spend time with her in school so she can show us all her work. The school out here is much more relaxed and open. The kids can take and share books and toys during circle time, parents can visit and spend time with their kids, hours are quite flexible and casual. Mari spent an hour with Maya at school last week, and this week Maya wanted me to show up. It was interesting to see the group of three to five year olds playing together and individually. All of the kids were focused and doing their work, spending time thinking about what to do next etc. The afternoon class is much smaller than the morning class and so they do get more attention if needed. From the looks of it, the kids did not need more attention. All of them were self reliant and quite self absorbed with their projects. PJ was fast asleep for most of my visit, need to visit when she is awake the next time. I suspect Mari and I will try to visit and spend time at school at least once a week.
Dave and Bob gave the kids two george bears on their visit in December. Maya has named PJ's one eyed bear Sausalito and has named her bear Yoghurt. Not sure how she picked those names, but they are here to stay :)
We pretty much have a stream of visitors from the US and India starting late march all the way into mid may. We've started planning trips and will attempt to visit places that we have not seen before. Some of the places on our list include
Another week flies by, followed closely by another equally hectic weekend. Its good to get back on a nice schedule and see the kids get comfortable with their surroundings and consider this their new home :)
Mari and the kids went to the Friday market at Founders primarily to get some delicous bread and baked goods from the awesome Founders bakery. The market is worth a visit just for the delicious ciabatta, whole wheat loaf and canale. Saturday morning, mari took off a bit early to go biking while I fed the kids and got them ready for the day. We met mari later on at Morrison Cafe and headed to the Saturday Market for our weekly produce / fruit / meat shopping. We really enjoy the market and are starting to build a good relationship with some of the suppliers. I also realized that our egg supplier also supplies free range chicken (but does not have a sign for that, since she has limited quantity!). We also frequent a great crepe place for crepes (Kaffey's). Some of our other favorite stalls include the my pie lady, the mussel man, the organic salmon lady and the cheese folks.
The saturday market includes quite a few craft stalls. We bought a very cute drawing table of the right size with two chairs from a local craftsman called Bruce Monro (s_bmonro at hyper dot net dot nz). Maya and PJ have been doing a lot of chalk drawing on it outside while we cook in the kitchen (and can keep them in the corner of our eye)
On Sunday we went to the Brightwater Wine, Food and Music festival. It was definitely the happening place in Nelson that day and drew a large crowd. It was a bit like the Saturday market with wineries in a much larger space. The music was quite good, and there were a few activities for the kids (bouncy tent, face painting, tractor ride, ice cream). We spent a good three hours there before heading home to rest and get ready for the week ahead
I made a pretty awesome chicken adobo and brown rice for dinner Sunday nite. The kids loved it and chowed down quite a bit. I put in a few lobo modification (fried onions and potatoes to improve on the recipe. We also used a few things that mari's mom puts in here adobo (star anise, brown sugar). Monday nite, i attempted to make, picnic fried chicken and was not too happy with the results. Not sure if i'll attempt that dish again or what went wrong :(
After moving 3 times, it feels great to finally take all of or mostly all of our things from our suitcases. There's still some boxes in the basement but it's mostly winter clothes and there's no need because summer has arrived. There's still the occasional rain shower, but it's not freezing outside and it's a sure bet that the sun will peek through before it gets dark.
I've realized that I really like having fruit trees close by. It's so fun to pick a fruit and eat it whenever you want. There are two plum trees and one peach tree. We've gone plum picking 3 or 4 times from the backyard. Maya and PJ enjoy the fruit picking. Before plucking it from the tree we'll look at it, make sure it's the right color and then pluck it into the bucket.
The sun is awfully hot here so much so that if we're at Tahunanui Beach, Maya and PJ ask for ice-cream. They're regulars at the ice-cream truck. Maya once said, "If it's hot we have to eat ice-cream." The search is still on for good ice cream.
I cooked a lot of things from my Tartine cook book when we first arrived because I love to eat sweets. After being here for awhile, I found the yummy stuff. There's a baker at the founder's market that bakes canele. Other things that I've been eating: chocolate panetoni, olli balls (deep fried muffin), savory muffins, and cakes from the swedish bakery in Richmond.
I've stopped getting bit so much by the sand fly. Or maybe I've stopped itching after it bites.
Life is back to normal and we seem to have settled down in a pretty good routine. The kids seem to be exhausted at the end of each day, so we let them sleep in till 7:30 am. Feed them breakfast, pack their lunch on monday and fridays, and then I drop them off at school by 8:50 am.
Its kinda boring working from home all day, so then I walk over to my alternate favorite coffee shop in Richmond, Ambrosia, which also has wireless access. Spend anywhere from an hour to three hours working from my cafe office (am a regular there and have my own reserved table and power outlet in one corner) before I head home and have lunch (typically leftovers from the previous nite dinner) with mari.
Mari picks the kids up at 3:00 pm (also spending some time at Ambrosia prior to picking them up). They hang out at the school or neighbourhood playground before I meet them at either the swimming pool or climbing gym or beach at 4:00 pm. All of us hang out, with mari and i getting in our workout while the kids are playing / splashing / climbing. Back home by 6:00 pm, we cook a pretty good meal. The menu for this week included spinach and mushroom gratin, lamb shank stew, whole salmon with wild rice, moroccan pie (from MyPie), and sushu from Sushi House. We are eating quite nicely out here :). PJ is well on her way to becoming a true foodie. She has started eating Sushi and chows down quite a few fruits these days (a sharp contrast from a year ago!). I've been tempting the kids with various lamb dishes. Its takes quite a few attempts but now maya and PJ seem to enjoy lamb. Yippee!, that means i can buy and cook more lamb (which is quite delicious out here!)
By 7:30 pm the kids are tired and exhausted. So we brush their teeth, read them a lot of bedtime stories and put them to sleep. Kinda nice to read to both of them at the same time. PJ sleeps in the top bunk bed while maya is queen on the lower bed.
The interactions between the two kids is getting quite interesting. They seem to play really well with each other, but then have a big fight periodically. PJ seems to be getting into her terrible two's quite nicely and is starting to rebel a bit more. Seems like we are in for some interesting times ..
